Funeral Services have been set for November 4, 2023 at Platte Woods United Methodist Church in Platte Woods, MO. The Visitation will be held from 9:30 a.m. – 11:00 a.m. November 4, 2023 with a Memorial Service immediately following at 11:00 a.m.
Patrick Dean Costigan, 78, surrounded by loved ones, passed away peacefully on October 15, 2023, after a long illness. Loving husband of Anita (Etzenhouser) Costigan, beloved father of Kristina Barker (Michael), Andrew Costigan, and Elizabeth Elliott (Ryan). Cherished “PawPaw” of Hillary Myles (Frank), Henry Costigan, Thomas Elliott, Reagan Barker, Jack Elliott, Colin Barker, and Connor Elliott, and great-grandpa to Rhea McGowan. He was preceded in death by his parents, Michael (“Ed”) and Marian Costigan, his sisters Marjorie Varney and Denise Cooksey, and his brothers, Michael Costigan and identical twin, Gary Costigan. He is survived by many loving cousins, nieces, nephews, and extended family.
Patrick was born on May 5, 1945 in Independence, Missouri. He attended William Chrisman High School, graduating in 1963, and then went on to receive his bachelor’s degree in Business Administration from Rockhurst University. During high school, he was invited to participate in the school’s first vocational program working in the new field of computer hardware and software management, which developed into a lifelong career working for Trans World Airlines (TWA) and Hallmark Cards. In 1969, he married the love of his life, Anita. Nothing made him happier than his wife and family, although his love of spending time at the Lake of the Ozarks, taking cruises, and Walt Disney World were all close seconds. In 1972, his adventurous spirit and love of travel led him to accept a job in Jeddah, Saudi Arabia with Saudi Arabian Airlines, where the family relocated until 1975. There, Patrick and Anita made many wonderful memories and life-long friends. Upon their return to the U.S., they made their home in Kansas City, Missouri, where they joined the congregation of Platte Woods United Methodist Church and settled into a full life centered on their family, faith, and friends. He was active in the church, as a Boy Scout leader, and as a volunteer with a variety of organizations.
Patrick was perpetually curious, and had a quick wit, kind heart, and contagious laugh, which were all qualities that he passed on to his children and grand-children. He was liberal with his love, kindness, and acceptance of others, and worked tirelessly to serve those in need.
Patrick’s full life will forever be remembered with love by his wife, children, grandchildren, extended family, and many friends who all loved him beyond measure.
In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to the American Diabetes Association, Attn: Camp EDI, PO Box 7023, Merrifield, VA 22116 to help make summer camp a reality for children with type one diabetes, a disease that has impacted many generations of Patrick’s family. Memories of Patrick and condolences to the family may be shared at meyersfuneralchapel.com
So sorry, he was a great friend and neighbor. Prayers and thoughts go out to Anita and family. Dick and Barb Hall
Dear Kris,
I am so sorry to hear about your dad. From what you told me he was a very special man and I know you have been a huge blessing to him and your mom through his illness. You and your family are in my prayers and thoughts. May God hold you all close and may you rest in His strength and love. Much love and hugs, Judy
Anita, You and Patrick have been in our prayers . So sorry to hear of his passing. What an wonderful obituary and what a wonderful husband, father and grandfather. You and your family will remain in our prayers. Miss you and all the Seeker classmates.
Love and Hugs, Ann and Jim Kelih
Please accept my condolences on the passing of Patrick. Knowing him in his volunteer roles at the Hillcrest Thrift Shop, I feel blessed to have known him and Anita. Knowing how difficult these last few months were, I know he is at rest. His journey was lovingly supported. Hugs to you Anita and to your family.
Anita & family
So very sorry to hear of the loss of Patrick. My thoughts & prayers are with you all at this difficult time in your lives.know that he is at peace & in the arms of our Lord & Savior with no pain.
You did everything in your power to keep him safe and at home. That kind of love never dies.
So very sorry for your loss! Pat was a truly wonderful man! My prayers are with your family!
I was so very sorry to learn, through Larry, of Pat’s death. I have fond memories of riding my bike to see Ed and Marian and my cousins. The years have passed, and I have lost contact with many family members over the years. I regret this. I read with interest Pat’s obituary. What an interesting life he lived! My sincere condolences to the entire family.
Nice photo of Patrick. Just as I remember him with the great smile. Always so approachable and willing to help with an IT problem at Hallmark. Loving thoughts and prayers for you and family.
Patrick was an amazing human being. He will always be missed.
Anita
You took care of your husband with fine dining and your wonderful humor. We offer our most sincere condolences to you and your family.
The Birchmier Family
Anita- I’m so very sorry to hear about Pat. You and your family are in my prayers.
What a beautiful Celebration today! The grands did such an amazing job sharing their memories of their “Papa”. Such a special family filled with love for Patrick!