In the wake of WWII servicemen were coming home and starting their adult lives over, getting married and starting careers and families. Jack and Anna Walby were doing just that. In the heart of the city’s East Side, they settled and started their family. First Sandra in 1947, followed by Linda in 1948 and bringing up the rear Deb, 1953. I think she may have been a bit of her Father’s favorite. Deb went to Manchester Elementary where she made many friends and was probably constantly in trouble for talking. From elementary on to high school at East High, Go Bears! After school and a series of jobs along came oldest daughter Jennifer in 1972. In 1974 along came second daughter Brandy, so very much like her mother in a lot of ways. In 1976 she got a job with General Motors at the Leeds Plant. There our paths crossed, and I asked her out, kind of on a dare. I’m thinking we way outlasted the betting pool on the length of our marriage. We got married in her mother’s basement and started our little family. She quit GM, to stay home, they were not heartbroken about her leaving. 1980 brought Liz into our bunch, when she was 1 month old, we moved to Parkville. Many adventures in Parkville, a great place to go to school and live. When the kids were all gone, we bought land outside Weston and built our new home. Many months of sweat and freezing temps and we moved here in December of 2001. Deb flourished in the country although she admitted she never imagined this is where she would end up. They say you can take the girl out of the Hood by you can’t take the Hood out of the girl. Of all the places we traveled to, she always said this is truly home. She truly loved all her gardens and the lovely flowers they produced. Our kids are all close as are a dozen grandkids and great nieces. Deb would quickly admit to being very richly blessed with family and a collection of friends from the East Side. Her MANY friends from youth that she still stayed in touch with were very precious to her. A lifelong Democrat, we so enjoyed discussing (arguing) politics especially around election time. She took right to my family as a dear daughter and sister-in-law. Deb, we didn’t see it going like this and we all miss you so. Every one of us is so sad, so a big hug to you, all your family is waiting for you with open arms, the pain of this mortal world is in your past. If you would like, feel free to memorialize Deb in any way you like.
A Gathering of friends celebrating Deb’s life will be held from 5:00 – 7:00 p.m., Saturday, August 6th, 2022, at Meyers Northland Chapel in Parkville, MO. In lieu of flowers Memorial contributions may be made to the Donor’s choice of favorite charity in memory of Deb. Memories of Deb and condolences to the family may be shared at meyersfuneralchapel.com.
Sending prayers for your family ❤️🙏🙏🙏
We have been sadden by the unexpecked news of Debbies passing. We are so sorry for the families lost. We will miss the decades of fun we have had with Deb and family.
Jen, thinking of you and your family at this time of sorrow. Hugs.
I’m so sorry for your loss, Andy. Keeping you and your family in my prayers.
RIP, your Spirt, Personality, and Memories of encounters with Deb Stewart are precious, and unforgettable. RIP my friend, your spirit will always be with us,
Debbie was the best. Such good memories with her. We will truly miss you Deb. Prayers to Andy and the family. We love you all.
Andy, Girls & Family
We are so sorry to hear of your loss.
Beautiful Debbie will be truly missed. May peace & love fill the hollow places.
With our Love & Prayers
Richard & Cindy Croskell
Condolences to the family. I remember Debbie always being fun with a good sense of humor. May she rest in peace.
I am sorry for your loss. Deb and I spent a bunch of time talking about our animals and gardens. I will miss her. She had a good sense of humor and love of life.
Andy and Family,I am so saddened by your family’s loss!
Beautifully written for a beautiful soul. I will never forget always being welcomed into her home and Deb’s wonderful sense of humor. She had an infectious laugh they would bring joy to any room. Rest In Peace Deb. You are missed so much already.
Dawn Johnson
Sorry for your loss. She was like another mom to me and Amber when we were little. Prayers for all of you.
Deb, you left too early, but I know I’ll find you again. The calls are gonna cost a fortune, till we meet up again. Yes the tears won’t stop, I’m not crying for you, cause I know my friend you are free of pain, in a better place, but crying for the loss of those talks, day dreams of those girls trips, , Andy and the girls, them grandbabies. Not worried that my secrets will be shared…rest easy knowing I’m keeping yours. DAMN DEB I FEEL YOU LEFT ME BEHIND, MY HEART IS SO BROKEN. I know you’d want us all to go on, and we will, but without you it won’t be the same or easy…till we meet again. LOVE YA, SIS
My spirit is saddened by the loss of Debbie! My prayers for Andy and their families. You will be missed Debbie!
Mama, or Mommy as I always called you when we texted. Dang it Mama why? Why did you have 2 go so soon? We hadn’t gotten 2 touch each other in YEARS like everyone else did. It’s not fair Mommy. U said U had 1 more procedure & then me & your grandkids would be able 2 come see U. This was the 1 wasn’t it mamá, wasn’t it? I feel so lost! We didn’t talk everyday but our 2 or 3 hour long talks every few months helped me 2 always get thru. Isabel said she couldn’t remember if she had told u about the scholarship she got 4 college. I told her U already know & you’re watching over all of them. Fly high you pretty Angel & give Aunt Sandy & Grandma Walby the biggest hug ever 4 me. This is not goodbye Mommy, this is until we see each other again. I will be there sooner than you can imagine. I love you so much!!!!!
Deb was like a mother to so many of us and I couldn’t imagine growing up without her in my life. I wouldn’t be who I am without her being part of my life. You will be missed dearly and by so many people. I love you Deb!!!
I grew up in Parkville, the 1st kid I met there was Brandy. We were best friends from day 1 and you and Andy were like a 2nd set of parents to me. You both greatly impacted my youth. I’m heart broken for all of you. Andy, Jenny, Brandy, and Liz you are all in my prayers. As well as her grandkids and many friends. She will be sorely missed. All my love.
Hugs to all you girls ! I was broken hearted when I heard from Andy a few days ago! I know we all are . I was blessed to have Deb in my life! No matter how long since we talked or seen each other when we made contact it was like we had lost no time! She accepted me as her Sista from the first time we met at My Dad and Winona wedding reception! We have made many memories from that night over the years! Memories with her and the love of her life Andy, my thoughtful other brother and all the way to Estes Park , CO! Luv ya Deb, Thank you for sharing your time with me! Until we are together again! ❤️
I was so sad to hear of Debbie’s passing! I still remember vividly the first time I met her and the family at Winona Moms home. I felt so welcomed and loved by all of you immediately. Debbie was bold, kind, generous and full of the best advice and love. Some of my favorite memories were made at the Parkville home and I still treasure them to this day. No matter how many years that passed, I always knew that if I showed up at her home, she would welcome me and my kiddos with open arms every time.
Andy, Jenny, Brandy, Liz, and Shelby, I know you loved her with every piece of your heart. I’m sending so many prayers and hugs your way! Thanks for sharing her with me and my family, she was definitely one of the good ones!
Love you all!
Rest now my friend. ♡♡
So glad you touched my life.
Jen, sending the biggest hugs and condolences to you and your family. Reading about your mom and watching the video, I see similarities – your smiles brighten any room, your laughs are contagious and your pure hearts have blessed you with so many friends. I’m sure the party in Heaven started when your mom arrived and she’s watching over you as the proudest any mom could be. I am so sorry very for your loss. I hope you find comfort in all of the wonderful moments you shared.
Hey Grandma, thanks for always looking out of us and giving us advice on life and just making our days feel better every time we went to visit and just always showing us love and affection whether it was food, an object, or something like those cute nicknames you have for us. Thanks Grandma, may your soul rest in peace for a life time
Hello. We just found out about Deb. We never met her, but we did write once in a while. Andy always spoke highly of her. Prayers go out to her and the family. I worked with Andy for many years at GM. He is a great person. Sincerely yours. Jerry and Rusty McCarty.